This past week alone I’ve gotten enough poorly executed messages to make me want to curl up in a ball of being-alone-forever.
I try not to lose hope that there can be some genuine connections made through meeting someone off of the internet. I have even made several lasting friends from some of my experiences.
I’ve read your profile, and I think you sound nice…” …is way less engaging than this: “What!! Especially online, when women maybe a little more on-guard, opening with a comment on their physical appearance runs the risk of seeming shallow and off-putting.
Some guys think that it’s cool to copy and paste and throw out a message like bait in a lake full of carp. I’d like to say there’s no right or wrong way to message someone (everyone usually has something that works for them), but there is definitely a better way.
Newer online daters are wise to use this first message online dating formula that has worked for me many, many times.
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Using this formula you will be able to craft a highly successful response in minutes to any woman. After a few bad dates you are going to be doing this by habit to spot warning signs. You want something short that will immediately grab her interest.
Get in the practice of doing this now with our first message online dating formula and you will get better responses. In my experience this is best done with a question.
Thus making an introduction easier and far less intimidating.