But if I really ask myself why this bothered me so much, I can honestly blame society! As a culture, we tend to associate the feminine with the more slight of build, the more diminutive, because most couples are heterosexual, and it just so happens that men tend to be taller or bigger then a lot of women, hence our association of femininity with smaller size.
If you recognize Deryck, it's because he's the frontman for Sum 41, a Grammy-nominated rock band that gained massive popularity in the early 2000s Anyone else remember Total Request Live??Between two women, femininity has to do with mindset. Just look at Hollywood, and you'll find tons of examples of tall female celebrities dating men who are shorter than them. Or at least they I've met women who claimed they'd never date a short man – until they met the man of their dreams who just so happened to be 5'6″.in fact, some of the hottest lesbians I've ever laid my eyes on have been of shorter stature than me), but as a femme, I had it stuck in my head that my partner should and would be taller and bigger than me.However, given that I'm 5'8", it proved harder to find many other women who were taller then me, especially once I put on heels.
At first I thought it was really wierd, but then I realized that I didn't get cramps in my calves and could actually balance while kissing him!!!! marg I'm 5'8' and most of the guy's I've been interested in have been my height or maybe a few inches taller at best.