Elite Singles understands how to date in your 30s and knows it is important to find appropriate matches when you are 30 and single.
Our exclusive profiling system, based on superior technology, combines the data from your in-depth personality profile, demographic details and your personal preferences to send you 3-7 recommended matches per day.
At Over Thirty Singles, we attract serious and sincere singles that are tired of playing the dating games.
We hear time and time how most online dating services simply do not work for over thirty singles.
I have created a life so full of fun and friends and work and kids and personal fulfillment that finding time for the average guy was uh, well, not so reasonable—thus the ensuing “search” for Joe Squared commenced. Photo overshares to new acquaintances, by the way, come off as a marketing ploy.
I did, however, learn a lot about myself and my priorities, about the dating process, about other people and that I have an entire closet full of clothes but nothing to wear. Relationships are about bringing out the best in each other, not the worst, and not the person someone else wants you to be. Ask don’t tell, listen more than you talk, and stop sharing your entire life story in the first hour. People earn the privilege of hearing your personal information and story by earning your trust; save it for the right people. Your actions speak louder than your words, and uh, your selfies.
I wanted to start the next (possibly painful) adventure in the little journey of my life I like to call “my current reality.” As much as I didn’t want to go there again (or, let’s be honest, to don something other than yoga pants), it was time. There is a difference between a compromise and settling, a one. This means that if your messaging pattern goes from phone blowing up to you staring at it, nonstop, checking to make sure it’s working, you are pretty much done there, sweetheart.Having spent a good year getting reacquainted with myself and my charming set of idiosyncrasies, I recognized the occasion calling for me to stop avoiding male attention and to start practicing the art of social bullshitting again. If it comes let it come, if it stays let it stay, if it goes, well, let it go. If he responds intermittently to you, then yeah, you’re not the only girl in his contact list. Taken from the mouths of our wise elders, “Don’t make someone a priority who treats you like an option.” Seriously. Be grateful for the opportunities provided, in whatever form they come.As many Canadian singles aged 30 know, it can be tough to pass the stage in your twenties when your group of friends have paired off and are now starting to settle down, get married and have children.Dating in your 30s can be a lonely experience with not as many of your social group still single to mingle with you.
It has become harder to meet high-quality matches who share your values and interests as the pool of available and suitable partners seems to have become smaller and it’s harder to know where to meet great single men and wonderful single women who are also dating in their 30s. Online dating has become an accepted social norm and Elite Singles has created a platform which does the hard work for you.